The term Cuckold most probably has came from the Old French for the cuckoo, cucu.
In 1250, the word cokewold was first documented.
The term cuckquean was documented in 1562 in English literature.
Eventually the term Cuckold became the dominant term.
There have been many legends surrounding cuckolds. It was said that there was once a time in history where a cuckold husband was forced to wear horns on his head and march around the village while other laughed at him.
Types of Cuckolding
There are different forms of cuckolding and nearly everyone you speak to has their own twist. But the two basic differences in cuckolding is that in one form it refers to a marriage or relationship where the wife or girlfriend cheats on their husband or boyfriend without their knowledge. The other type of cuckolding is cuckold fetish or cuckold submission where the cuck is fully aware of his partners activities and usually fully supportive of such activities. This type of fetish is very common in a relationship involving domination and submission.
Cuckold Fetish Lifestyle
In such a relationship or marriage where the cuckold submissive is fully aware and supportive of the Females activity, the cuckold may sometimes also be celibate. Some cuckolds feel that being celibate gives greater feelings of happiness to the cuckold and that they are being more dedicated in their role as the cuckold. It may be said that many cuckolds gain sexual arousal from serving as a cuckold. The act of also being celibate can give sexual pleasure to the cuckold.
In such a relationship the wife is often called a cuckoldress or a Mistress. What level of participation the cuckold undertakes in his wife or girlfriend or Mistress`s sexual activities will vary.
Humiliating the cuckold is in important part of the cuckold lifestyle and both the Dominant and the cuckold derive pleasure from this in various ways. Often the dominant wife or girlfriend will make the cuckold take an active part when she is with her lovers. Sometimes the cuckold is just forced to watch or maybe stand in the corner. But at other times the cuckold will become more involved. The favorite part of being the cuckold is usually have to prepare the lovers for his wife or doing cleanup afterwards. Verbal abuse or even just laughing at the cuckold is all part of the humiliation. Often the cuckold is required to buy gifts for the wifes lovers or to say thankyou to the lovers for making love to the cuckolds wife. Its all part of the humiliation and cuckold lifestyle.
In the wider society at large, a proper relationship consists of one man and one woman with the man being in charge of the family and the decisions, or at best the woman having an equal say in the relationship. Any other arrangement is thought to be strange. But for many people, they just donít fit into that male≠dominant, monogamous mold. They want more, and they need more to truly be happy and satisfied in their lives. That desire, that drive for more out of a relationship is the reason that so many people turn to the Cuckold community, as there are many different types of relationships in the community aside from simple one man plus one woman monogamy. These new arrangements give people the freedom to live life as they see fit, allowing them to engage in the size and type of relationship they truly desire. Women especially benefit from the freedom a Cuckold relationship can offer them, as many of these new types of relationships put them squarely in charge of their own destinies. One such relationship, a Wife Led Cuckold relationship, gives the woman absolute freedom and comfort, and can lead to true fulfillment in a way that a male≠dominated monogamous pairing simply cannot.
A Wife Led Cuckold Marriage consists of a Dominant wife, a submissive husband, and any other men that the woman would like to have as lovers. These other lovers donít typically live in the home with the husband and wife, but the husband is fully aware of the other men and actually fully supports his wifeís sexual encounters with these other men. This type of arrangement can be baffling to people who have only ever known or conceived of traditional, standard, male≠dominated marriages, but this type of relationship offers many benefits and freedoms to the couple that make it all worthwhile. Many couples living this Wife Cuckold Polyamorous lifestyle actually have stronger, closer bonds than couples in traditional marriages, and they get the chance to lead healthy, fulfilling lives.
For women, a Wife Led Cuckold Marriage allows them to use their natural feminine superiority and talents to lead their families. Most women have a natural dominance, and when nurtured and explored in a Wife Led Cuckold Marriage, leads to intense satisfaction. In a Wife Led Cuckold Marriage the woman is completely in charge of decisions for both herself and her partner, and she makes the rules of the house. Where she leads, her husband will follow, and this is extremely empowering. It allows these women to be in charge of their own destinies and to use their innate feminine gifts to fully develop and shine. The woman in a Wife Led Cuckold Marriage is also the Dominant with her husband, requiring him to serve her every need and wish both in the bedroom and out, fulfilling her urges to be in control and take charge.
For men, they find having their wives as the leaders of the household to be extremely satisfying. Not only does it free them of responsibility and obligation, it allows them to give in to their natural tendencies to submit. Many men truly crave the comfort of submission, but due to pressures from society, donít ever find themselves in a position where they can let others, particularly women lead. The Wife Led Cuckold Marriage allows these men to engage in submission and the many psychological and physical pleasures that it brings. Men also generally revere and wish to please women, some more intensely so than others. For these pleasers, Wife Led Cuckold Marriages allow them to satisfy their desires to make a woman completely and utterly happy. These men appreciate the training and obedience required by a Dominant wife because in the end they know that they are able to give her exactly what she wants and needs.
As for the Polyamorous aspect of this type of relationship, an aspect that many traditionalists find hard to accept and understand, it is actually a powerful bonding tool for the wife and husband. The wife is able to have her sexual needs met by taking on other lovers. Perhaps she needs more variety than one man can provide for her, or perhaps she simply craves the attention of more than one male. Many women in traditional marriages find themselves wishing for more attention in the bedroom, but due to the strict nature of monogamous marriages, never get it. This leads to dissatisfaction in the relationship that can drive a wedge through the entire marriage, even possibly leading to divorce. Itís just a fact of life. But for these Wife Led Cuckold relationships, she can get the sexual attention she needs that her husband alone cannot provide, while still remaining emotionally attached and bonded to her husband. The husbands here also recognize this need for more than they can provide, and in the interest of fully satisfying her, they support and encourage her going outside of the home for the attention she seeks. The man understands that this will lead to her enduring happiness. He also recognizes that this strengthens their own personal relationship as she can focus on him as her husband without the nagging, lingering desires for more sexual attention that ruin so many traditional marriages. He, however, remains faithful only to his wife as part of his submissive role, and does so to please her even further.
A Wife Led Cuckold Marriage is a beautiful relationship that allows both the man and the woman to fully explore their own personal Dominant and submissive natures. It also allows the woman to fully entertain her sexual desires in a way that brings her and her husband closer together. This type of arrangement is typically stronger than a traditional marriage as both parties are getting exactly what they desire and are able to fully satisfy their deepest and most primal natures. It may seem strange if youíve only ever considered traditional male≠led monogamy, but these new, exciting Cuckold relationships are actually more intuitive and more natural. They lead to more satisfaction, more pleasure, and more close≠knit relationships, and relationships like a Wife Led Cuckold Marriage are the future of our relationships if we choose to fulfill our needs, desires, and deepest natural instincts.